Where or where to begin! I am so sorry that we have disappeared on you all over the last 6 weeks or so! I did make a quick post a few weeks ago letting you know that we were dealing with a serious health issue of a close family member, and about K moving in soon! Unfortunately the close family member passed away a few weeks ago, and that was especially hard on us. It is never easy to lose anyone we love, no matter how old or young they are! We have been picking up the pieces of our grief and trying to get back to life.
We have also been doing some renovation to prep for K to move in with us. We have been renovating some areas of our home we were not using so he can have some room to set up his own furniture and be able to feel like he is at home too. He needs to be out of his place before August 1st and we have prior plans at the end of July so we need to have him moved this weekend instead. We will be continuing the renovations even after he gets moved in, but we are trying to do as much as we can before hand. It is exciting, as K has practically been living here the last 6 months anyway, minus his things. I know he is eager to be able to feel more settled and we are eager for him to be settled. I never would have thought as we went into the new year that someone like him would come along and fit with us perfectly to the point that Wifey and I have welcomed someone to move in and share life with us like this. We are very happy though!
Hopefully before too long we can share the podcasts that were recorded a few weeks ago, but one of the questions asked was do our families know about this lifestyle arrangement we are living in. No, none of our family members know, and hopefully we will keep it that way even with K moving in, because the way our home is arranged there is some level of separation where it won’t be overly obvious. We are doing nothing wrong, and yet in our society not everyone would wrap their heads around our choice to live like this, so it is just easier to try to be discreet.
In addition to all this, I had a major (but planned) surgery at the end of June, a hysterectomy, and have been needing to take it pretty easy and recover through all the chaos, but I have been doing what I can to help with painting and such as I am able. Being so busy has helped distract K and I from the fact we cannot actually have vaginal sex for 10 weeks. We have almost 3 of those weeks under our belt now, but who is counting! Thankfully there are other ways to enjoy each other in the mean time.
There was some fun play a few nights ago when K and I had Wifey wear her bikini and we had her kneel in the bathtub and indulge in K’s pee straight from the source. Wifey loves the water sports and I enjoy them from time to time too. For whatever reason I had a strong urge to watch that! Wifey drank a good bit, but she also had a good bit sprayed on her cute little titties too. I had peed in a glass as well and when K was done I took my glass and poured it over her head! We were nice and let her shower right afterwards though. Wifey was grinning from ear to ear the rest of the night and most of the next day after that!
I know we teased you with a lot of new rules and rituals a couple months ago since K started taking a more dominant role with Wifey, and we never got around to explaining all of it! So sorry! Much of it has been hit or miss with consistency because of everything that has been going on, but hopefully in the next month we get back to a good routine here and we will start talking about all of that. In the mean time please be patient as we get things settled here.